Learn From Mistakes

Hey World,

    This is the next step for developing yourself towards your attitude and personality(if you are thinking that you can change this world and everything).If you think these steps which i'm recommending to you is meaningless and waste of time,I'm sorry my dears it's a psychological treatment(especially for youths) to achieve their goals in short time which i'm trying to follow in my day today life.So,try to put these steps in live and i'm 100% sure you'll see the change in you(TRUST ME IT WORKS).

LEARN FROM MISTAKES

Failure is often championed as a critical step in the path to eventual success. The accomplished are those who know how to learn from their mistakes, not people who never make mistakes.

In theory, we understand the concept. Learn from your mistakes in order to move forward in life.But, how, precisely, does this process work? How do we learn from our mistakes rather than repeat them, hoping for better results the next time? How do we stop simply persevering and start getting things right?
Here are steps you can take to learn from your mistakes.

Recognize the Mistake
The first step, and the most crucial, is recognizing when you have made a mistake.You may blame circumstances for a setback rather than admitting that you did something wrong, either deliberately or unintentionally. It’s true that a particularly freakish set of conditions may have nullified the effectiveness of your right action, and such a situation may never occur again.

To determine if you are repeatedly making the same mistakes, consider patterns. Do circumstances that you have mentally labeled “unusual” occur repeatedly? If such situations are really the norm, then come to terms with the idea that you are making mistakes over and over.

Take time to reflect on your actions (or absence of actions) in order to determine whether you made a mistake, whether someone else was at fault, or whether uncontrollable circumstances were not conducive to success.

Pinpoint the Cause of the Mistake

Determine the specific action that was a mistake. Figure out what caused an error or triggered a series of missteps.

Bad habits can lead to simple mistakes. For example, you may routinely leave late for work, causing you to take unnecessary risks on the drive to your office; you may overbook your calendar and find that you forget or miss appointments; or you may multitask so often so that you don't pay attention to important conversations and miss details that cause errors.

Whether you find yourself navigating new territory or going over old ground,there may be many possible causes of mistakes. Consider all factors.
For example, as a job hunter, you may have made a mistake when you made an innocuous comment deemed inappropriate by an interviewer. However, your remark could have been insightful, relevant, and appropriate in another setting with another employer or hiring manager.

The above schema is a simple method to learn from mistakes.If you find hard to see the image its my responsibility to inform the steps to you.The steps which is informed in this schema is

1. What happened? and what was the consequences?
2. What assumptions am i making?
3. What role did communication play?
4. What role did power play
5. What patterns do i observe?
6. What learning occured?What can I do differently?

I think i just conveyed a useful guidance for you.If you are interest to get more relavance topics please comment it.Thanks in advance.